The man of your dreams has romantically proposed, of course you say yes! You rush to tell family and friends, you excitedly set the date, life is good… next comes the wedding planning, juggling your time and money, ploughing through endless to do lists, politely rising above interfering friends and family and resisting the will to throw or break something when your car driver carelessly double books and cancels one week before the date.
Miraculously you kept on track, you kept your sanity and the day is set to be perfect! But what’s that? The niggling anxiety that surely something will go wrong, something will be forgotten, broken – disaster will strike! Never fear, we have a few answers to the most common worries and problems a bride faces.
Lets be honest, the only problem that cant be fixed and would make the whole day fall to pieces is the ‘no- show’ of one of the leading roles, your self or your partner!
Your beloved, he will show! – Of course he will, relax, he did ask you after all, and he hasn’t bolted during the chaotic planning of the day when maybe once or twice bridezilla threw a tantrum or two. He’s in for the ride and cannot wait to make you his other half
*We strongly recommend that you put you foot down and not let his best mate have the stag do too near the wedding day, a missing groom somewhere in Europe, a hung-over groom stood at the alter or a groom found tied to a lamp post would be what we consider a problem!
Your bridesmaids – strong and in control, not a chance in hell that they are going to let anything spoil your day. Rely on them, delegate to them, they are your closest friends and you know you can trust there decision making. Let them deal with any problems that may occur, leaving yourself free to enjoy and experience your day.
* A recovery kit is a great idea to combat any little problems regarding unplanned predicaments, leave it in the hands of your most trusted bridesmaid (the most sensible out of the group, not the one most likely to have snook off with the best man) small enough to be kept in her bag, consisting of useful bits like nail varnish to combat chipped nails and ladders in stockings! Hairspray to keep your locks looking glamorous, a mini sewing kit to fix snags or tears, baby wipes to remove any marks and stains, makeup for beauty touch ups and perfume to keep you smelling wonderful.
Good company – Surround yourself with it, enjoy the ride, benefit all of the details that you put into place during your planning. Laugh, catch up with relatives, enjoy being a newly wed, laugh at the speeches, enjoy the food, drink your champagne, dance at your disco and enjoy the simple fact that all of your hard work has paid off, each and every one of your guests have come to celebrate the union of you and your new husband.
Now what?-
You did it, you planned a wedding, had a wedding and come out of the other side smiling, your wedding was a success, but now what will you do? You dedicated so much time into planning the thing you felt like it was your second job, well never fear its not all over just yet…you can focus on your new life as a Mrs, open all of those generous presents, write thank you cards, honeymoon, fill out name change forms, organise wedding albums… Oh will it never end?
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